Monday, August 07, 2017

Review: Volunteering: A Guide to Serving in the Body of Christ

Volunteering: A Guide to Serving in the Body of Christ Volunteering: A Guide to Serving in the Body of Christ by Leith Anderson
My rating: 5 of 5 stars

I received a copy of this book from the Netgalley web site and the publisher, Zondervan in exchange for an honest review.
A short quick guide but with a lot of information in it.
I have been in volunteering in one way, shape or form in the 35 years that I have been a Christian. I have led departments (sound) and been a background person (kid's ministry) and a little bit of everything in between. I did not think that this book could tell me a lot about it, but I wanted to get some new ideas and thought this might do the trick. I was surprised and not disappointed.
While most of my Christian ministry of late has been online and this book deals with the local church, a lot of the material can be used for the online world.
The book deals mostly with the one in the trenches. One thing that it talks about finding your gift so you can serve effectively. So often we do not know where our gifts are and so if we do volunteer we do it in the wrong place, get discouraged and never volunteer again. So the authors encourage you not to quit but to seek someplace else to use your talents. There is even a guide to what your spiritual gift could be.
One think I liked that is not talked much about is that the authors gave a whole chapter to burnout. I speak from experience, it is real in Christian ministry volunteering. They talk about sensing it, and what to do about it from both sides, the leader and the person who volunteers. This was a powerful chapter.
I recommend this book to any who will be leading or volunteering in a Christian ministry. If you are a breathing Christian, this means you.

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Review: A Matter of Life or Debt

A Matter of Life or Debt A Matter of Life or Debt by Edward S. Blythe
My rating: 4 of 5 stars

I received a free copy of this book in exchange for an honest review.

I like to pigeon hole my books as I read them. Some I know in advance what they are because of the description. Others, the description does not give a good idea, so I tend to try to figure them out as I go along, they usually fall into mystery, science fiction, romance (do not read many of them), etc. I think you get the idea. And there falls my first bit of trouble with this book. It does not fit any category that I have in my thinking. This does not make it a bad book, it just means that I do not know where to pigeon hole it.
We open at a time years ago, the people who are the leads in the book each have their own voice as they tell the story. Each speaks true to his character. This has been a problem with some books I have read as late, telling the story from the eyes of the character but not staying in it. Here they stay true to who they are as we listen in on their thoughts. The author has a good eye for the people he has populated this world with.
We journey with them, as they go through high school, military, prison, marriage, struggles, etc. While at times there seems to be a little too much information, looking back after it was done, it really was necessary.
I do not know why, I did not see anything that tipped me off, but the guy who was the big bad guy at the end was the one that I expected it to be, I just did not expect the ending as it was. It left me wanting to know what happened to the main focus of the story, Levi. Did they live happily ever after, did he go back to work on the border patrol? I would assume that there will be another book by the author to let us know. While the story did wrap up, it would have helped to know what happened to the main characters afterwards. That is why I knocked it down one star.

Recommend it people that like to look at character studies and what makes people tick. Thank you to the author for letting me read it in advance.

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Review: Into the Storm

Into the Storm Into the Storm by Amy Quick Parrish
My rating: 0 of 5 stars

I received this book for free and voluntarily reviewed.

Into the Storm picks up where book one left off, a few months later. It has a much different feel than the first book does. We know the characters so other than a few references to bring readers up to date that have not read the first one, we can get into the story.

While the previous book dealt with establishing Jamie and seeing how she was able to learn her powers. Book 2 deals more with time travel. I love time travel, have since I was a kid, but I have finally hit a time travel story that I did not like as much as I have others. The main downfall here to me was there was so much of it. We did not go back in time to one point and stay there. The characters seem bounce around time like a ping pong ball in the middle of a game. It got a little hard for me to keep up with where they were. At one point, near past, next 20 years ago, then to the present then to the deep past then almost to present again, if you understand what I am trying to say.

Other than that, the book is well written. The characters appear to stay true to form. While the time travel was confusing, the plot moved along and was interesting. We get to see into the background of one of them and that helps us to understand him better.

This is a YA book and I am a much older person, so maybe the time travel bouncing would appeal more to the younger crowd. The story did hold my interest. And that takes a lot for me.

Recommend it to people who have read book 1, and to others if you want a good story line of travel through time trying to right wrongs.

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Tuesday, August 01, 2017

Review: Pineapple Lies

Pineapple Lies Pineapple Lies by Amy Vansant
My rating: 5 of 5 stars

I received a free copy of this ebook in exchange for an honest review.

I had second thoughts about accepting this book. We are going to make fun of us old people (I am 64), and yes fun was made of them, but that is OK. They make fun of themselves as well.

The premise is one that could be a TV comedy show. I can see an ensemble cast doing great justice to the cast of characters in this book. Charlotte is in her mid 20s and lives in a retirement community. She is able to do this because her grandmother (who she moved in with when mom died) passed away leaving a young teen in a group of retired people who love on her. Now she is feeling she has to do something with her life so she paints the wall of her kitchen so she can make notes about herself. As she digs up her backyard to make a garden, a skeleton shows up and now she has a purpose, find the killer.

While most of the story is told from the eyes of Charlotte some of the others tell the story from their points of view as well. The author nails it hear. Each voice is quite clear. Charlotte can be scatter brained, we get to see that in her random drifts in to other topics that have nothing to do with what she should be doing and become a neat side trip in to other areas. Declan, her not quite a boy-friend (who is the son of the person she found) is another voice we hear from. His tends to be business like, and that makes sense as he owns the local pawn shop.

There are enough turns and twists that you will keep changing who you thought did it. While the ending was not as clean as I thought it would be it did make a lot of sense as to how the body got where it was.

Though it has some innuendo, there is no real sex, which made the book an enjoyable read for me.

Need a nice cute romantic mystery, this might be a book to enjoy and I will enjoy making a run at the rest of the series.

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Monday, July 31, 2017

Review: Spirit-Empowered Theology: A Concise, One-Volume Guide

Spirit-Empowered Theology: A Concise, One-Volume Guide Spirit-Empowered Theology: A Concise, One-Volume Guide by Charles Carrin
My rating: 4 of 5 stars

To start with the review, I got asked to review this book as part of a 'Blog Tour' I received an advanced copy of it through the author agent in this respect and from NetGalley.

When I read a nonfiction book I try picture where it would be used at. Christian books are usually a type of self help book or a Christian Education (aka Sunday school) type of book. This book does not meet either of those. While it is scholarly it is not something that would be used in higher education either.
Simply put, it is a encyclopedia of sorts. The author has put together what he thinks are important questions that should be asked and answered by all Christians. I will say the collection of questions are good, the answers brief and understandable and should be a good reference for the average Christian.
There is one 'but' though. Not all Christians believe the same. His theology leans towards the charismatic/pentecostal teaching. I have no problem with that. I believe much the same way. I have only small difference with what he says but that may be just a matter of semantics. Others who differ strongly with the pentecostal teachings can get a lot out of the other parts of the book, but that could be a stumbling block to many denominational members.
I think this is a book that should be in every Christian's home as a good reference book when questions about certain things come up. I recommend it to all. It may help non-Christians understand some of what their friends are talking about.

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Review: Heart Of Destiny: Book One Of The Heart Of The Citadel

Heart Of Destiny: Book One Of The Heart Of The Citadel Heart Of Destiny: Book One Of The Heart Of The Citadel by Susan Faw
My rating: 4 of 5 stars

An engaging fantasy adventure. Magic has been banned, or so it seems. 12 young girls go missing from the 12 provinces of the known world, that is run from the citadel. There is bad on the way, but who are the good people and who are the bad.

Engaging to the end. And a setup for a future series.

I received a free copy as a beta reader. I looked for editing problems. This is an honest review.

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Thursday, July 27, 2017

Review: Mars Journey: Call to Action: Book 2

Mars Journey: Call to Action: Book 2 Mars Journey: Call to Action: Book 2 by Bill Hargenrader
My rating: 4 of 5 stars

This picks up prior to where book 1 left off. It was a little confusing, but I understand why we could not have the events at the beginning of the book appear in the timeline of book 1.
Newer characters take the field and established ones get some depth to them.
The author does not ramble on about a scene like a lot of what I have read lately. However, if the words are necessary he is not afraid to use them either.
Since it is free for a review for book 1, which was free, there is not a lot invested here but your time, and the books are both short reads. Just because they are free does not mean they are not worth your time.
Recommend to all who like science fiction. Worth your time.

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Wednesday, July 26, 2017

Review: Mars Journey: Call to Action: Book 1: A Science Fiction Thriller

Mars Journey: Call to Action: Book 1: A Science Fiction Thriller Mars Journey: Call to Action: Book 1: A Science Fiction Thriller by Bill Hargenrader
My rating: 4 of 5 stars

Was given a free copy, as I believe all the copies of this book are. It is an introduction to a series of books ( I would call them short stories individually). There are people who will complain about buying three 'books' (actually eBooks) but in the end, right a review and get book 2. Only one you are paying for is book number 3.

Characters to me were believable. We are set down in the middle of a disaster in the making, and we are forwarded to the point where plans are being put into motion for a Mars mission. While set in what could be considered current time, it has to be some short time into the future.

Enjoyed the book and recommend it to all. Good solid writing. Looking forward to book number 2.

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Tuesday, July 25, 2017

Review: Jackie Robinson: A Spiritual Biography: The Faith of a Boundary-Breaking Hero

Jackie Robinson: A Spiritual Biography: The Faith of a Boundary-Breaking HeroJackie Robinson: A Spiritual Biography: The Faith of a Boundary-Breaking Hero by Michael G. Long


I received a copy of this book in exchange for an honest review. I want to thank Westminster John Knox Press and NetGalley for the chance to read this book.

I am not sure that I would call this a biography. I would call it a history book whose central figure would be Jackie Robinson. He had a tremendous impact on history and the period of time he was alive was certainly one that needs to be reviewed, especially in what this book talks about, civil rights. It is a history of the civil rights movement. Many times we branch off on the people and events that are part of his life, but we always come back to it.

This period of time is important to me. Jackie broke the racial barrier in the late 40's and I was born n the early 50's. While I grew up in this time frame, until we get to the 70's much of it was new history to me. And a lot of it rung true to me. I can remember my father telling me that the negro needed to have his rights. I also remember, when a negro family moved in to the area and I went to play with them, I came home with a beating from my dad that I was never to go to that area again. So I can say that much of the problems between the races that is talked about was quite evident in the years I grew up.

The book is not political. It is a history of what happened. And it all revolves around Jackie Robinson. I would gladly recommend this book to anyone. It is not a book that preaches at you, but faith was a part of his life.


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Review: The Book Thief

The Book Thief The Book Thief by Markus Zusak
My rating: 0 of 5 stars

I enjoy reading something different and this was. I borrowed it as an eBook from my local library. I did not realize until I was finished that it was considered a YA book. I think there is something for everyone in this book.
I loved the fact that Death was the narrator. A non-spoiler spoiler, everyone dies. I am not going to tell you how, but remember that Death is telling the story.
I have seen people complain about the language in the reviews. I did not notice, maybe because I do not speak German. Taking place in World War Two Germany, we follow the story from the country that lost the war. And we follow the story as Death tells us about the 'Book Thief', a girl who really does not steal a lot of books.
Enjoyable fiction. Take time to read it.


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Friday, July 21, 2017

Review: Millie's Angel

Millie's Angel Millie's Angel by Kim Petersen
My rating: 3 of 5 stars

I received this book for free and voluntarily reviewed.

I enjoyed this book for most of it. It was an interesting character study of people and how they reacted to each other. I felt compelled to continue reading it even though I kind of figured out what was going to happen to the various characters. The only big question was what would happen at the very end to one of the characters. We could see the wheels being set in motion long before they happened. It did not end the way I expected it would, but that is OK.

The characters were well thought out and showed growth and development throughout the book. The progression of the years in the story flowed easily with what looked like some very natural breaks in their struggling lives.

Some might say if I though that well of everything, why do I only give it three stars. I guess I would have to say that I do not mind a little preaching at but when you spend pages trying to teach me your spiritual philosophy that I get put off. Most of the book I could see hints of New Age philosophy and that was OK. I am not going to put an author or a book down just because I disagree with what they believe to be true. If I did that, I would only read what I myself would write. I also expect the authors I read not to try to force their beliefs on me as well. I was interested in the characters and how things would progress but then all of a sudden, Millie, our main character goes on and on and on about her (and I suspect the writer's) point of view on how our world is all one stream of consciousness that we form our world around us with our thoughts. I felt like I was reading an advertising brochure for a new age religious organization. I felt like I had an investment in these people and now that I was hooked I was being spoon fed the belief of the author. Take that chapter (and it seemed like it was a whole chapter) and pull it out of the book, I would have given it a 4 star, maybe even a five star review.

To be clear, I do not begrudge the author her point of view, not do I think she is a bad writer. As I said, I enjoyed much of the book. I do not remember why I picked this out of a list of books to look at, only that it looked interesting.

I could recommend this to people only with the understanding that it does become a recruitment for the author's beliefs.

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Tuesday, July 18, 2017

Review: Shattering Time: Book 2

Shattering Time: Book 2 Shattering Time: Book 2 by K.J. Waters
My rating: 3 of 5 stars

I received this book for free and voluntarily reviewed.

I love a good time travel story. The other day I found reruns of a 60's show called Time Tunnel. I loved the movie 'Final Countdown' as well as 'Time after Time', both obscure to many. That said, when I had a chance to read a time story as an advance copy I decided to go for it.

I was not disappointed, well not a lot shall we say. Like most books lately it is part of a series of books. In reading any of these, if you do not start with the first one, you can get confused. Here I was book 2. However, the author was able to work the basic storyline of book 1 into the opening chapters in a way that I did not need to read it. And I can see that there is another book brewing, but this one left with a complete story.

I have two major problems.
1) Sex. Ok, I understand it sells books. It seems like there were multiple sexual acts described in full detail. I cannot see most of them led to the the continuation of the story. Only one really. Others could have been covered with how the heroine though back of the night they shared or something like that.
2) Out heroine who seems to be a got it together 2o something, seems to not have it together in romance at all. She seems to hate her boyfriend but stays with him (Stockholm Syndrome). And yet seems to fall in love with her soul mate(s) time after time (pun intended).

The science nature seems plausible even though we know that time travel can not be done. Historically it seems accurate based on what I know. Story wise, great characters that appear well thought out.

Would I recommend it. I would if you can get past the over use of sex in the story. I might have give it another star if it had been toned down.

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Monday, July 17, 2017

Review: Murder at the Jolly Jester

Murder At The Jolly JesterMurder At The Jolly Jester by Ian   Thompson
My rating: 4 of 5 stars

Name sounded interesting and I received this book from the author as part of a promotion.

I am thankful for one thing in this book. While there was some romance hinted at there was not any sex scenes in it at all. So many of the fictional books that I have been reading of late feel that there must be sex in it for it to sell.

There is a murder at the Jolly Jester, a pub in a quaint English town. One of the regulars has been murdered. So now we have a physical game of Clue going on. We know what they did it with, just not where, how it was done and who did it, as well as how did the dead body get into a locked room. The proprietor of the Jester knows he cannot trust the police to clear his name so he goes to investigating it himself.

I was slightly disappointed in the ending. I did not feel that it fully led to its potential, i.e. not enough pointed to one of the bad guys. But it did make sense.

Good light hearted read that has just enough to keep you going.


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Monday, July 10, 2017

Review: One Nation Without Law: The Rise of Lawlessness, the End Times and the Power of Hope

One Nation Without Law: The Rise of Lawlessness, the End Times and the Power of Hope One Nation Without Law: The Rise of Lawlessness, the End Times and the Power of Hope by Phil Hotsenpiller
My rating: 4 of 5 stars

To start with the review, I got asked to review this book as part of a 'Blog Tour' I received an advanced copy of it through the author agent in this respect and from NetGalley.

The title and the subtitle say it all, so if you are one that does not read the subtitle, then make sure you do. I did not notice it till just now. What do I mean by that? The book is divided up into three parts.
1. Rise of Lawlessness
2. The End Times
3. The Power of Hope

So as I said, the name says it all. As I had just sort of read the name (not the subtitle) I was very confused when the book seemed to take an abrupt right turn and move from lawlessness and the history of it and then went to a discussion of the end times. That is not the fault of the author, it was my fault for not reading the title clearly. I want to make sure that you are aware of it. If you are like me, end time prophecies can get to be a problem. In that respect I was not prepared for the end time discussions

The book held interest to me, even through the end times discussions. I had to just leave it as ones persons decision based on the way he interpreted the Bible. It is funny that we can all read the same scriptures and come up with different ways of what we think they mean.

Part 1, the rise of lawlessness was the best part of the book for me. Starting with Adam and Eve and coming up to the present time, we can see that there has always been lawlessness. We can also see that as we progress in time, things are getting worse. But we always have the power of hope. We are not left defenseless. We have the power of prayer and the armor of God. We are not to just roll over and let the end times come.

The book was well balanced, talking about the three parts with equal measure. It was a pleasure to see this because so many books on end times focus on one of these over the expense of the others, usually focusing on prophetic looks at end times. With a balanced look at things it makes it a book that I would like to keep in my library.

If you have a need for a good book on the end times, this would be it.

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Review: The Furious Longing of God

The Furious Longing of God The Furious Longing of God by Brennan Manning
My rating: 4 of 5 stars

This book is Brennan Manning as he usually is. That is not necessarily a bad thing. Manning can be an acquired taste. It is one I enjoy.
His basic story is this. You can not sin so much that God can not forgive you. We are all ragamuffins and God loves each one of us. We have to learn to walk in that love. For people like Brennan, this can be hard, because sometimes we do not love ourselves and we get self destructive.
I would suggest it to all as a look at what I think that Christianity is all about, it is not about religion but relationship. Still, that will shock some people and they will not be able to handle it. Guess what? God still loves them anyway.

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Thursday, July 06, 2017

Review: Deliver Us from Me-Ville

Deliver Us from Me-Ville Deliver Us from Me-Ville by David A. Zimmerman
My rating: 3 of 5 stars

The book was OK. I read it over time so I am sure that helped in losing something in translation. It is a look at us. We tend to put ourselves on the throne and move Jesus off. When we do that, then we are in Me-Ville. The object of the book is to get us out of there and on the way to Thee-Ville
Part of the problem with the book is that I kept feeling that the author was trying to paraphrase what other people had written. In other words, the book, though original, was not an original thought but an explnation of what others have written. He seems to quote Bronhoffer a lot. While he was an interesting man from what I have read about him, I might just read his books and skip this one.
Last chapter I felt was the best. But what can I say.
Recomend for my Christian friends. Not sure others would want to read it.

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Cape Zero: The Fall

Cape Zero: The FallCape Zero: The Fall by Nicholas Woode-Smith
My rating: 3 of 5 stars

Got a free copy that the author was giving out as a promotion. In general, Zombie stories are not my cup of tea. I like my zombies cute and functional like on the TV show iZombie. So I approached this with a little bit of skepticism. Still, I thought it would be interesting to try something new.

Zombie culture (except for the above mentioned iZombie is that zombies are mindless unthinking creatures who just attack people. The author here introduces classes of zombies. Some are blind and do not seem to be as intelligent as the others. Then their are sighted ones. They seem to be able to reason things to some degrees. Why are some different? We are never told why, we just have to accept it. And that becomes a stumbling block for me when all of a sudden, some of the sighted ones figure out how to use tools including weapons to accomplish their goals. How? Why?

We follow Peter, a lone wolf, who happens to be in the wrong place at the wrong time. Zombies start to over run the area that he is in and he takes sanctuary in abandoned apartment that he finds. This could make for a boring book a large part of the book deals with a fish out of water story. He realizes he needs others to survive, and though he is a lone wolf, he joins a group base on knights and squires. He seems to move quickly up the ranks.

I can forgive a lot of that. What I do not like, is s story that ends but does not end. I realize the author is trying to get me to buy the next book (might be why I got this free one), but I just hare that we are left with mini-cliff hanger. The story does wrap up and there is a completion, but it is set up for the next book.

If you like Zombies and survivalist stories, then you will enjoy the book most likely. I thought the book was OK. You will have to decide.


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Tuesday, July 04, 2017

Review: Movies Are Prayers: How Films Voice Our Deepest Longings

Movies Are Prayers: How Films Voice Our Deepest Longings Movies Are Prayers: How Films Voice Our Deepest Longings by Josh Larsen
My rating: 4 of 5 stars

Standard disclaimer. I got an advanced copy of the book from NetGalley in exchange for an honest review. I would like to thank them and IVP books for the ability to be able to read it in advance.

I wanted to read this book because I think of myself as a bit of a movie person. Another reason was that my church (life.church) does a series each July called At The Movies where our Pastor takes clips from movies and builds a sermon about them. I expected a kind of insight that Pastor Craig Groeschel gives in the movies. Well, I am not as much of a movie person as I thought I was, and the insight given was not like my pastor's at all. This last fact is not a horrible thing. It is just that they have two different ways of looking at things and I was not expecting the difference.

The book made me want to look into some of the movies mentioned in the book. In fact, it may be worth picking up just for the lost of movies from the book listed in the appendix at the end.

Each chapter starts with a view of a type of prayer and talks about how a particular shows that type of prayer so that we can get an understanding of what he means. For the most part, these movies are relatively well known so as to help us by giving us something familiar. From there he shows us written clips from other movies, here they may be a little bit more obscure, to give us clearer details of the idea, and then rounds it up with going back to the into film to wrap things up.

One of the things that I did a lot of was looking up films to watch later as I read the chapters. The way a silent movie was talked about made me want to rent it right away and watch it. Even though I did find it on an online service to rent I did hold off as there were many other good ones mentioned as well.

I have read many books on the types of prayers that exist. As usually no two books reflect the same list of prayers, and this book did not disappoint in that respect, his list is different also. What was interesting is the way that he weaved these prayers in a story. It is a well know story of creation, then the fall. Followed by redemption and then restoration. Each of the type of prayers follows in those categories. Creation: praise. Fall: yearning, lament, anger. Redemption: confession, reconciliation, meditation/contemplation. Restoration: joy. In the end, the last chapter shows you them all in one movie as a journey.

My only complaint was chapter length. While I did not go back and see if they were evenly spaced out (I suspect they were), there seemed to be some chapters that I wanted to go on longer and felt they were cut short. Other chapters I felt went on much longer that they needed to. This is most likely my fault and not the authors. It is just where I was at when I read those chapters I think.

Recommended for Christian friends and those of my friends who are not antagonistic to the faith and also like movies. I look forward to any books this author may put out in the future.



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Monday, July 03, 2017

Review: Lilith

Lilith Lilith by George MacDonald
My rating: 3 of 5 stars

The book was an interesting read. I can see where C. S. Lewis got his inspiration as Mr. MacDonald was an author that Lewis had read.
The story can seem to drag in places, but I think that is the nature of the time period that it was written in. The authors that I have read of this era seem to like to say a lot of words to say something simple.
If you cannot stick with the story through the long opening sections which seem to make no sense, than I would not recommend the book. It is an allegory of what life is and where we are all going. You take out of it what you put into it.
Not recommended to everyone. You have to want to read it.

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Wednesday, June 28, 2017

Review: Sex and Money: Pleasures That Leave You Empty and Grace That Satisfies

Sex and Money: Pleasures That Leave You Empty and Grace That Satisfies Sex and Money: Pleasures That Leave You Empty and Grace That Satisfies by Paul David Tripp
My rating: 2 of 5 stars

I really did want to like this book. I wanted so bad to like this book. But it just was not there for me. For the record, for the average Christian who does not think that they need this book, this could be an eye opener to their lifestyle that they are not aware of. That is, if they could get past the title that they would skip over because they do not think that it would apply to them.

So what was my problem with this? In an unofficial capacity I have a ministry to men with addictions. The title screams that this would help me help them, especially those with sexual addictions. Mr. Trip tells us over and over that we should turn away from out problems (rarely does he call them addictions) and put Jesus back on the throne as we move ourselves off of it. Now, this is good advice, I have no problem with that. The problem is a person with addictions needs to hear this but also needs to be given steps in the natural to overcome their problems. Mr. Trip does not offer anything like this at all. One without the other is not a real solid teaching in my estimation.

Except for a few chapters it is mostly about sexual problems in life. Change the statistics and put in other addictions and this book could have been about any pair of addictions that you want them to be. The book is really that generic. Basic quote from the book to sum it all up:

“The dynamic of addiction is that if you look to something that God created, to give you what it wasn’t intended to give you, either you get discouraged quickly, and wisely abandon those hopes, or you go back again and again, and in so doing, you begin to travel down addiction’s road."

In other words, you take the creation and replace the creator with it.

I think that the only chapter I liked really well was chapter 4 that talks about 'The highest pleasure'. He tells us why we are wired for pleasure and how to get Godly pleasure.

For the average user this book will most likely be OK. I really can not recommend it for anyone who is working in ministry to people like this or to the families of people with addictions. They will repeat the things to the addict thinking they are helping and the addict needs help, not just words.

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Monday, June 26, 2017

Review: Into Dust

Into Dust Into Dust by Amy Quick Parrish
My rating: 4 of 5 stars

I received this book for free and voluntarily reviewed.

I have not read a lot of YA fiction, mostly because I am a much older person and the idea was kind of strange to me. A web site I visited offered some e-books for reviews so I scanned what was there and this one seemed interesting to me. When gifted the book I found out it was a YA book. I am thinking that I may have to start reading more because like another one I read the quality is quite good. On top of that, the age range indicates there will be a low of non-existent amount of sex. However, romance is still up for grabs in general it seems.

I have been a comic book fan for years and that is what interested me in the description. Janey, the lead character in the story, is a young girl from the Mexican side of the Texas border who loves her dad and comic books. She notices a resemblance to her dad, a masked vigilante (she does not know about this), and the comics she loves. Eventually, events lead to her father's death as he is fighting the drug cartels, and that is when the powers he had transfers to her. Eventually she moves to the Texas side of the border where her mom is from, and has to learn, with help from a tutor, about the powers she has.

It is funny in many ways because that part of comic book heroes is rarely looked at. The training she must go through to become the hero she needs to be. The fish out of water type experiences are quite well written, as are the times that she seems to doubt herself and her newfound abilities and the person who is training her as well.

The use of two different points of view in this story, both her and the person training her, is a little jarring at first but at least it is introduced early on in the story so that it is well established by the middle of the book.

My only complaint may be because of the medium that I was reading it in. Because one of the powers she had in pushing/receiving the thoughts of others the thoughts are often in italics. I have no problem with that but there were several times in my copy where words were in italics but not thoughts, and other times that thoughts (though they were from either person's narrative, not their thought dialogue) that they were not that way. By the middle of the book, it seemed to be standardized. I am thinking that it may be just the nature of the e-book and as I was able to read around it I did not see it as that much of a problem.

All in all, quite good. recommend it anyone who would be looking for a good story of comic book heroes and supernatural. May even want to take a look at the second in the series.

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Tuesday, June 20, 2017

Review: Hope for the Same-Sex Attracted: Biblical Direction for Friends, Family Members, and Those Struggling with Homosexuality

Hope for the Same-Sex Attracted: Biblical Direction for Friends, Family Members, and Those Struggling with Homosexuality Hope for the Same-Sex Attracted: Biblical Direction for Friends, Family Members, and Those Struggling with Homosexuality by Ron Citlau
My rating: 5 of 5 stars

To start with the review, I got asked to review this book as part of a 'Blog Tour' I received an advanced copy of it through the author agent in this respect and from NetGalley.
When I was asked to review this book I was offered an e copy or a physical copy. I wish I had asked for the physical copy now. I wish now I had asked for the physical copy. This book is rich with content that I could use to help others. NetGalley copies will disappear after a suitable reading time so I will not get to use this book again and will have to take a lot of notes before it does.
Through the church that I go to I have a small online ministry that is to help men with addictions, most particularly sexual in nature. In the last few month I had a few people join that have problem with same sex attraction. When this book was offered to read I decided to take a look.
I honestly did not know what to think. I have reviewed one book about homosexuality that really s aid a lot of negative things about people who do not accept that it is the way God made them. I figured that this book maybe on that side of the political spectrum, or worse, it could have been the 'let's shoot them all' mentality. Fortunately this book did not fall either way. It was a common sense way of looking at the problem that people with same sex attraction(SSA) face.
This book is not for people who are family members or friends of SSA people. Unless you are trying to understand them better this is not for you. It is for the people who are this way or the people who minister to them. And for this book to work, we assume the people believe in Christianity and want to live a life pleasing to God.
The book is divided into parts. The first part deals with the obstacles that the SSA person will face in trying to live as a Christian with this attraction to the same sex. How it is identified is important as the author weaves what he believes is the proper way to identify yourself through the rest of the book.
Section two deals with the ways to deal with these attractions. The author does not purpose a conversion to an opposite sex attraction. If that comes, fine. In the meantime, God may call you to a life of being single. But not to be single alone. Become part of a community at a church that accepts this and will work with you to help you to grow in your Christianity.
The last section is a note to people who minister to these people and also an encouragement to them.
To be honest, a lot of this book, especially the last few chapters, with a little changing of the words, could be written to any people with sexual addictions.
The author does not give pat answers to the problems. This is good because life does not solve things just because we want them to. This is a point that is made throughout the book, especially in chapter 8 where he teaches about using some of the Psalms as prayerful laments. This spoke to me very deeply.
Five starts for this review. I recommend it to people with same sex attraction and to the people who minister to them.

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Tuesday, June 13, 2017

Review: Four Views on Christianity and Philosophy

Four Views on Christianity and Philosophy Four Views on Christianity and Philosophy by Graham Oppy
My rating: 4 of 5 stars

Standard disclaimer. I got an advanced copy of the book from NetGalley in exchange for an honest review. I would like to thank them and Zondervan For the ability to be able to read it in advance.
I think in getting this book I bit off a little more than I could chew. That is why it took me so long to read it.
A few semesters ago, I took a Introduction to Philosophy class and have become fascinated with the idea that Philosophy and Christianity have so much in common yet be so different. I was approaching this book as a way for me to explore Christianity in respect to philosophy. I was not really prepared for what I was reading in that respect. That does not make the book bad, just not what I was thinking when I requested it.
The book is a compilation of four ways to look at the two subjects.
Conflict view - philosophy is better than Christianity
Covenant view - the exact opposite
Convergent view - philosophy confirms Christianity
Confirmation view - trying to make philosophy in a Christ centered fashion.

Of the four I feel that the author of the Conflict view did the best in explaining and defending his point of view. Of the four, the confirmation view was the one I tend to adhere to and felt it was handled fairly well.

Each author gives his point of view, the other three get a chance to make their comments and then the original author gives his rebuttal to the comments they have made.

I liked the format, but as I said, I had to take a lot of time to read as I was not fully understanding some of the terms. This is not for the average reader. While good, it is more something that I would expect to see in a classroom.
I do recommend it, but make sure that you have a good grasp of both the theology of Christianity and the understanding of how Philosophy works.

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Wednesday, May 17, 2017

Review: Are You My Spiritual Father?: Spiritual Fathers And Sons...Or Brothers?

Are You My Spiritual Father?: Spiritual Fathers And Sons...Or Brothers? Are You My Spiritual Father?: Spiritual Fathers And Sons...Or Brothers? by Jonathan Brenneman
My rating: 3 of 5 stars

"I believe spiritual sons are not accepted or embraced, they are born of death, persistence, perseverance and passion. True sonship is earned by aspiring sons, not given by their fathers. So, pay the price."
Unknown Christian preacher that sets up why this book was written.

That sets up the premise of this book. Some teaching that the author has heard. He is not identified not the denomination or any other affiliation. That is my problem with this book. I have been a Christian for almost 40 years and I have never heard a teaching about being a spiritual father/son. To be fair, I have heard of and experienced a pastor that was borderline Shepherding movement. I submitted to him up to a point and then felt that it was getting abusive. It also kept me from going to Bible School. So, yes I have seen abusive teaching in the church. I just never have heard this type of teaching.

The author does try to balance the words of Jesus that 'no man should be called father' with Paul's words of fatherly affection. In doing so he seems to muddy the water a little bit.

I would like to think that the relationship that Paul had with others that he called sons was more a mentoring relationship. I have heard it taught that everyone needs a Barnabas a Timothy in their life. Barnabas was the one who mentored Paul, and Paul mentored Timothy.

It has some points that needed to be made, but since the main point is to refute a teaching that was made by an anonymous person, I can not recommend this book more than 3 stars.

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Friday, May 12, 2017

Review: Microsoft Office 365: Connect and Collaborate Virtually Anywhere, Anytime

Microsoft Office 365: Connect and Collaborate Virtually Anywhere, Anytime Microsoft Office 365: Connect and Collaborate Virtually Anywhere, Anytime by Katherine Murray
My rating: 3 of 5 stars

Free book from Bookshout so can not complain. It is for an older version of Office 365 (Lync has been replaced with Skype for Business).
It talks more of what you need to do to plan for a good Office 365 Collaboration with Sitepoint more than it does how to use the apps. That is a good idea because most of us know how to use the apps.
It also focuses on the administrator side of things.
It is free, pick it up from Bookshout if you have a need for it.

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Tuesday, May 09, 2017

Review: Invention: Think Different; Break Free From the Culture Hell Bent on Holding You Back

Invention: Think Different; Break Free From the Culture Hell Bent on Holding You Back Invention: Think Different; Break Free From the Culture Hell Bent on Holding You Back by Justin Camp
My rating: 5 of 5 stars

I was given an advanced copy of this book as part of a 'Launch Team'. I was asked to give an honest review.

This is an excellent book for a men's ministry. There is inside each man an inventor wanting to do something great. How do we know what it is that we are to do. We need to train ourselves to listen to the God who created us in the first place. Only through him can we learn what it is that we were invented for so that we can learn what we need to invent. It may not be a physical invention, it may be a need that you meet for others, and in fact it will often be.

The book has 8 chapters to it. The first one is an autobiographical look of the author. What he went through to be a success in his chosen field, and how he still felt that he needed to turn to the one who invented him to find true success. Chapters 2 through 8 look at one inventor, what they had to go through, to overcome, to make it through to create the invention that they had been successful with.

From Edison and seeing that he was not self made, to Bell, who wanted to help his deaf mother hear, Marconi, who had to figure out a way for the noise of the telegraph signals to be overcome, the Wright brothers having to overcome the feeling of not being able to accomplish something, and others. Each chapter brings us their story and how the author feels that we can use this in our lives. And then, we are guided in looking at each story with questions to make us think about why and how these are to influence our lives. The questions are designed to lead us deeper and understand things.

There are also some appendices that some of the chapters refer to. These take us deeper into what we are supposed to see in ourselves, what God is calling us to do and to get us launched out into doing it. These exercises are important.

As noted, the book could be used for men's group but also could be used in it's own as one man trying to find out his call in life.

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Friday, May 05, 2017

Review: Fame is a Killer

Fame is a Killer Fame is a Killer by Meredith Potts
My rating: 2 of 5 stars

This is something I had never heard of before. It is a cozy mystery. Short stories with no adult content. It was kind of nice to have that but that does not leave out the fact that to have a good mystery you have to have a good story.
In the end it was any of a list of people who could have done it including the storyteller herself. We know it was not her because she is telling us what she did.
Someone once said that if you kill someone in the third act with a sword, you better have made it available in the first act. And that was my problem here. There was nothing that pointed to the killer as well as no red herrings to throw us off on the other people.
As a quick mystery to kill some time it was OK.

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An Unhurried Leader: The Lasting Fruit of Daily InfluenceAn Unhurried Leader: The Lasting Fruit of Daily Influence by Alan Fadling
My rating: 5 of 5 stars

Standard disclaimer. I got an advanced copy of the book from NetGalley and Intervarsity Press in exchange for an honest review.

Some books you can skim and get something out of them. Some books take a lot of time to read because you want to take your time and soak it all in. This is one of those times. Reading pre release copies can be frustrating sometimes. After a certain time period the books can no longer be read. This is one of those books I may have to spend some money on.

The premise is that most leaders in Christianity (yes it is geared towards Christian Leaders), tend to make plans and then ask God to come into them. Mr. Falding changes that idea. Why not ask God what He wants do and then make the plans. How much of leadership in organizations is done with asking God first. When we do this it tends to slow things down first.

One of the first thing this type of leader does is to fill himself with the fountain that comes from God. You can not spill onto others what you do not have in yourself. That is chapter 1, and the other 9 chapters do not disappoint. They include topics of looking at out thoughts (one that helped me a lot), taking time to pray (not as an afterthought for the start of a meeting but before it all starts), and leading with the same grace that God gives to us.

Each chapter has a set of exercises to be done as you finish the chapter. Do not skip these. These take what you have learned and make it something solid in your life. You learn some by seeing, some by writing and a lot by doing. Not doing these exercises leaves out the chance to make these internal in your life. I only did a few of them because of time constraints in my life but I have used them in helping others find something inside themselves to help change themselves.

I cannot recommend this book any higher than 5 starts or I would. If you are even in lower levels of volunteer work in a church, you can learn so much from this book.


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Wednesday, April 19, 2017

Love to the UttermostLove to the Uttermost by John Piper


John Piper, the author, is a well respect preacher and theologian. I am not a big follower of his but do visit his web site and pick up on some offers he has.
For the Easter season he put together this small book with 8 devotions for holy week. The whole book could most likely be read in an hour. But the trick here is to read a chapter each day, preferably early, and meditate on what it says. When used in that way, this book is great. And you really do not need to limit it to Holy Week. While it fits there, it is good for anyone who wants to mediate on what Jesus has done for us.
It is available for free at http://www.desiringgod.org/books/love... should you care to pick up the PDF or a physical copy can be purchased there as well.


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Tuesday, April 18, 2017

Review: Seven-Mile Miracle: Journey Into the Presence of God Through the Last Words of Jesus

Seven-Mile Miracle: Journey Into the Presence of God Through the Last Words of Jesus Seven-Mile Miracle: Journey Into the Presence of God Through the Last Words of Jesus by Steven Furtick
My rating: 3 of 5 stars

Standard disclaimer, Netgalley and Multnomah provided a copy of this book in exchange for an honest review.
Interesting read. It is the Sunday after Jesus has died, He is missing. Two discouraged travelers go back to their home town of Emmaus, about a seven mile walk away from Jerusalem. They are joined by a third unknown, who explains to them all that had to happen to Jesus was in the scriptures. When they urge him to stay and eat, in the breaking of the bread, Jesus reveals Himself. Then he is gone.

Flashback, we are on the hill watching Jesus die. During his time on the cross he utters 7 phrases (Furtick calls them words). Seven happens to be the distance to Emmaus. So for each mile of the journey, we look at the phrases in the order that he said them. They weave the steps that a Christian should take for salvation forward.

Each 'mile' is given a quick story of what was happening at the time said. Then there is a separate section for what Furtick thinks those phrases are to mean. Like anyone else I may not agree with someone's theology but I can learn a lot from anyone I take the time to listen to (or read from).

I enjoyed most of the book. I am not sure if it was me or the book but near the middle I had a hard time with the book. It felt like to some degree or another it was repeating itself in some way. It may have been me being familiar with the content, I do not know. But it was a point that I had to keep pressing on to finish. Eventually I did and the ending chapters did feel much better.

The book would be good as a series of devotions for the week leading up to Easter (Holy Week) or it can be read at any time. I would recommend this book for someone who wants a better understanding of what Jesus did on the cross for us.

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Wednesday, April 12, 2017

Review: Battlestar Galactica: Folly of the Gods

Battlestar Galactica: Folly of the Gods Battlestar Galactica: Folly of the Gods by Cullen Bunn
My rating: 4 of 5 stars

Standard disclaimer:
Netgalley.com/Dynamite Entertainment provided an advanced copy for an honest review.

I enjoyed the story. I was back in the 70's with a show that I enjoyed so much. The author was well versed in the story lines from the show and used them to advance the plot of the book and weave them in and out. It was done in such a way that the person that had never seen the show could understand. The characters were true to there counterparts on the show. It was even a cute touch that they used the swear words that were written so they could swear but since they were made up words they got by the censors.
The artwork for the most part was quite good. It helped to move the story along. My only gripe was with the main characters. For the people not part of the main cast of the show, they were drawn fairly clear. Main cast however seemed to be drawn with features that seemed to be like they had their faces blurred after they were drawn. My guess here is that they could not get permission to use the distinct features of the actors so they muffled the features a little bit. It did take away some of the enjoyment of the graphic novel. I am hearing Lorne Greene, Richard Hatch, and Dirk Benedict in my head because I know them so well, but the pictures just does not go along with the voice, especially Mr. Green.
It was a nice trip back in time to when life was a lot different.

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Thursday, April 06, 2017

Review: Forensic Faith: A Cold-Case Detective Helps You Rethink and Share Your Christian Beliefs

Forensic Faith: A Cold-Case Detective Helps You Rethink and Share Your Christian Beliefs Forensic Faith: A Cold-Case Detective Helps You Rethink and Share Your Christian Beliefs by J. Warner Wallace
My rating: 5 of 5 stars

Disclaimer, given copy of book in advance for an honest review by the Netgalley web site.
It was an interesting book. I know that what I believe is true but when I took a philosophy class last semester (as I get older I want to keep the mind going), I realized that I could not talk intelligently about it. Many of the arguments that were given me to question my faith in that class were used in the book (like the typical 'Flying Spaghetti Monster' one). I am not sure that I could ever make it to the Christian Case Maker that he talks about in this book. At this point I can talk a little more intelligently about the questions that could come at me.
The book follows a natural progression from barely understanding the topic to being well versed in and what to do. He seems to rely a lot on the fact that you have read the other books in his series but when he mentions them, he does bring forth the relevant points from them so you do not miss anything in the referrals to them.
I would recommend to any who are being questioned about their faith and as a tool for a parent to sit with their pre-teen and teenage children so that when they go off to college, their faith will be there own, not the faith of their parents. They will be able to talk intelligently about why they believe what they believe when they are questioned in class.

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Thursday, March 30, 2017

Review: Messy Church Enhanced eBook: A Multigenerational Mission for God's Family

Messy Church Enhanced eBook: A Multigenerational Mission for God's Family Messy Church Enhanced eBook: A Multigenerational Mission for God's Family by Ross Parsley
My rating: 3 of 5 stars

I always wondered why the church that I had been attending for years started doing the things they did the way they did. Thanks to this book I know why. They had read this book or one like it.
I do not disagree with the author on the premise of a church as a family, nor do I disagree with his thoughts that all generations should be at the table together. What I do disagree with is the concept that this can be done in a church that has been around for a while. When it did happen, people started to vote with their feet how they felt about the church. I weathered it out for a while but as I saw needed ministries be gutted because they could no longer be supported, and the one that I was involved with was one of them, I left as well. This book is better to be read by a person who is involved with a new church rather than trying to change an existing one. There was a lot of good material in it. I just feel that trying to steer a big ship is not as easy as steering a row boat. Most people will not last long enough in bigger churches to get the ship on the course that it needs to be.

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Review: Security and Privacy for Microsoft Office 2010 Users

Security and Privacy for Microsoft Office 2010 Users Security and Privacy for Microsoft Office 2010 Users by Mitch Tulloch
My rating: 4 of 5 stars

While not a current book (2013 is what I teach, 2016 is most current) it offers a good overview of security features that do not change a whole bunch in each version of Office. If you can pick it up relatively low cost it would be a good investment.

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Tuesday, March 28, 2017

Review: This Risen Existence: The Spirit of Easter

This Risen Existence: The Spirit of Easter This Risen Existence: The Spirit of Easter by Paula Gooder
My rating: 5 of 5 stars

Excellent book for the season of Lent. Ms. Gooder focuses on the three things that are important that come from Easter.
1) The resurrection being the most important to a Christian. Without it there is not salvation. The next is the ascension, without this Jesus would still be here and we would expect Him to be doing all the work.
2) The ascension, since it falls on a Thursday, is usually not remembered on most church calendars. However, it is important.
3) Pentecost. Without this event, we would not have the power to go forth and tell others.
Without each of these events, the story of Easter is incomplete.
I was able to read this as part of Faithlife web site and their free book. As part of the site, people could sign up to read the book together and talk about it. That made the book a little more interesting to me as I read what other people thought and could reflect on things that I missed.
It is a seasonable book. For that reason, though it could be read any time of the year, it is best read as a reflection time leading up to Easter, or as part of the time from Easter to Pentecost.
Enjoyed the book.

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Monday, March 27, 2017

Review: The Good Book: 40 Chapters That Reveal the Bible's Biggest Ideas

The Good Book: 40 Chapters That Reveal the Bible's Biggest Ideas The Good Book: 40 Chapters That Reveal the Bible's Biggest Ideas by Deron Spoo
My rating: 5 of 5 stars

Standard disclaimer. I got an advanced copy of the book from NetGalley in exchange for an honest review. Deron Spoo has written an excellent book that can be used in so many different ways. It can be used as a personal devotional, a Christian Education class, a Bible study, etc.
My only disappointment, minor because I may have read something into his introduction. I was under the impression that he had created this book of stories to help an unchurched (ignostic he calls them) to understand the Christian faith better. In reality the title says it all, 'the Bible's biggest ideas.
The book is written to all levels. A person who has read the Bible and studied it can gain some new insight. I know that I looked at some scriptures in a way that I would not have before. On the other hand, a person who is unchurched can pick up the book can gain an understanding of what it truly means to be a Christian and what we believe.
Forty ideas are presented. 20 from the Older Testament (Old means we do not use it any more, older means it still has value), and 20 from the New Testament. One might have their own scriptures that they might include, but I feel that Mr. Spoo has chosen with care what he thought were the best ones. I am sure it was hard to narrow it down to 40 ideas.
If you are looking for a book that argues theology, this is not it. Nor does it deal with the issues that as Christians separate us into denominations. It does, however, introduce the key concepts of Christianity in nice bite sized pieces.
High recommendations from me on this book.

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Friday, March 24, 2017

Review: Facehooked: How Facebook Affects Our Emotions, Relationships, and Lives

Facehooked: How Facebook Affects Our Emotions, Relationships, and Lives Facehooked: How Facebook Affects Our Emotions, Relationships, and Lives by Suzana E. Flores
My rating: 4 of 5 stars

To start with got a free copy of the book from NetGalley in exchange for a review
When I first started reading this it took a little bit of getting into it. I had just finished reading 'The Church of Facebook' and was expecting it to be very similar. It really was not, but like that book, it took some getting into it for me, but for opposite reasons. Church of Facebook seems to tell stories that had nothing to do with the subject but in the end had everything to do with it. Fachooked started out with stories but went right into the why of them.
It was interesting in that the author started with the light fare and when you got far enough in, the subjects became a little darker. And that is the way it should be. If she had started with the scary stuff first people might not read it at all. That was a good call on her part. If that is not what she had planned it still was a good move on her part. I feel that just the right amount of time was spent on each subject, although for me and what I know (I work in IT and am familiar with a lot of this) some seemed to drag on. I can not object to that because not everyone has the same level of knowledge and what drags for me might be not enough for you.
In all, I think it was a good read and would recommend it to anyone that has interest in the subject matter.

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Wednesday, March 08, 2017

Book Review - Understanding the Culture

Understanding the Culture: A Survey of Social EngagementUnderstanding the Culture: A Survey of Social Engagement by Jeff Myers
My rating: 5 of 5 stars

I got an advanced copy from Netgallery in exchange for a review. Unfortunately I could not finish in time for the book to be released. This is a good thing. It was so deep, rather than skim through it I had to deep read it each chapter.
The book has the feel of a Classroom textbook. It is easy to read but the topics are very deep. There is a clear pattern to each chapter and once that pattern is noticed it does make the reading a little easier.
It is clear that once you get into it, this is a Christian world view book. The name does not give the hint that it would be. I wish I had a copy of it last semester when taking a Philosophy class, a lot of the questions that came up I had a hard time addressing. It would have been good to have this a reference to quote from.
It is the third in a series and I would love to some time invest in the other two. For now, I will have to add them to my want to read list.
Summing it up, it is a great book, but it may not be for everyone.


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Wednesday, January 25, 2017

Book Review of Mom I'm Gay

Mom, I'm Gay: Loving your LGBTQ child without sacrificing your faithMom, I'm Gay: Loving your LGBTQ child without sacrificing your faith by Susan Cottrell
My rating: 3 of 5 stars

I got a free ecopy of this book from Net Gallery in exchange for an honest review of the book.

I ask to review this book not because I have a child who is gay, but I have children who have gay friends. In fact last Thanksgiving she my daughter brought home a young man from hr college who says he is trans-gendered. He was welcome into our home with no problem whatsoever. A far cry from the father who told him not to come home for Thanksgiving.

I was hoping that I could understand the right and wrong things to say. The author does address that, but the politics in it is fairly overwhelming. For about the first quarter of the book she spouts the belief that God made your child that way. If you do not think that God did this then you are basically told how unloving you are. While she does not use the words, she basically is talking about the gay gene theory. It has not been proven either way, but she speaks as if it is the only truth. For a person who preaches that we should not judge, she judges you flat out if you disagree with her.

As a Christian, I also do not care for her bashing the church as a whole. She basically says that there is no church that will affirm your gay child. She late in the book talks about a select few that would be accepting and recommends a web site that you should go to. One of her problems here is she talks about people who have religion and not relationship. The church I go to (one of the megachurches she puts down with not names mentioned) when I told the pastor of the church that my daughter would be bringing a trans-gendered person to church said, great, we will love them like we love everyone else. You see, we preach a love for all in our church. A sin is a sin, and there sin is no worse than mine or yours. What matters is your relationship with God.

I can not recommend this book at all as long as the political baggage is attached to it. If she could have stuck to the ins and outs of loving a child who was gay I would have given it 5 stars. Since she got political about things I could only give it three. I also recommend that the author not judge others, just like she talks about in the book.

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Tuesday, January 03, 2017

Wow, has it been that long.

Used to be this was where I posted a lot of the flotsam and jetsam that flowed through my mind.  As I became more involved in Facebook, that is where a lot of my thoughts wound up going and I realized the other day that I had not blogged for a while.
Logging in tonight I realized it has been a year an a half.  And before that it was spotty.
So, here I am again. let's see if I can be a little bit more regular here.

Happy new years....

Tuesday, June 23, 2015

A New Look at an Old Story

We changed churches recently.  While I still love the people at Grace Church in Tulsa, I did not feel like I was part of the fellowship anymore.  I honestly felt that it was time to move.  I looked at a few, but I kind of felt that I should be at Lifechurch.TV South Tulsa campus.  Last week Pastor Craig started a sermon series on "The Christian Atheist".  Very good series.  I was encouraged to try a reading plan that they had called
Home Again: A Study Of The Prodigal Son.  I would encourage all to read it.

I have read the story of the prodigal son for years, even facilitated a group that discussed the The Father Heart of God: Experiencing the Depths of His Love for You , a book devoted to that same story.  So for me, I did not think that I could learn anything new from it.  You know, God has a habit of grabbing you by the neck sometime and just politely tell you, shut up and listen.  I did for this one.

It is an old story, I am sure that you know it well if you grow up in church.  One son wants his inheritance while dad is still living.  Takes the money and spends it all, then, when he has nothing less, he tries to return home to be a servant.  Dad rushes to him, forgives him, kills the fatted calf and has a party for him.  The older son gets mad because he did not get a party the whole time he stayed.  The question that this devotional tried to bring out was, "which son was the better one?"  (that is my version of it).

I always though that the older son was the better one.  He stayed with the father through all the problems of life that were thrown at them, there he was, right by the dad's side.  If the younger had not run away, then he would have been blessed just like the older one did.  Sure, the younger son was forgiven, that says something, but the older one was smarter. Or was he?  His actions, that I had not really looked at closer before, showed he was just as bad as his younger brother.

In reality, one brother is living by faith, the other living by works.  Both are elements that God wants in our lives, and like the father loved both of his sons, God loves both sides equally.  Both of these, however, are ditches on the side of the road.  You get off on one you or the other, you are out of the will of God.  God will gently prod you to get out of the ditch and get back up to center ground so that you can move on with what He has planned for your life.

Take some time to do the reading plan, I am sure you will get something else out of it.  If nothing else take some time to take a look at the YouTube presentation of the story.


Monday, September 09, 2013

From the "If I drank I could win a bar bet with" department

Helping my son with homework tonight and the question was name the three largest cities in Oklahoma by population and land mass. We looked up population and it was Oklahoma City, Tulsa and Norman. By land mass it is Oklahoma City, Norman and Tulsa. He wants one answer not two so I look up population per square mile.  That muddles things up even more as it is Tulsa, Oklahoma City and Norman.

So if you ever need the answer to the largest city in Oklahoma, you can give one of three answers and be right!

Wednesday, June 20, 2012

U.S., Israel developed Flame computer virus: newspaper - Yahoo! News

U.S., Israel developed Flame computer virus: newspaper - Yahoo! News

So they are trying to blame something on us from un-named sources.  What is funny is the following quote:


Since Flame was an intelligence "collection" virus rather than a cyberwarfare program to sabotage computer systems, it required less-stringent U.S. legal and policy review than any U.S. involvement in offensive cyberwarfare efforts, experts told Reuters.
The CIA, NSA, Pentagon, and Office of the Director of National Intelligence declined to comment.

Um, yes, the USA and the various departments are just going to admit to something like this?  If they were not involved and said so, would the average person believe them.  
Problems with conspiracies, is once they start, they are hard to kill....

Tuesday, April 17, 2012

Do people really think about what they are saying when they get their 15 minutes of fame?

News from The Associated Press

So, in Georgia, there is a little girl throwing a tantrum in school and the police get called in:


Salecia Johnson, 6, was accused of tearing items off the walls and throwing books and toys in an outburst Friday at Creekside Elementary School in Milledgeville, according to a police report.
Police said a small shelf thrown by the child struck the principal in the leg during the fracas. The child also jumped on a paper shredder and tried to break a glass frame, the police report states.
So, she was really traumatizing all the students all around her, would you agree?  So what do the cops do?
The school called police. When an officer tried to calm the child in the principal's office, she resisted, police say. She "was restrained by placing her hands behind her back and handcuffed," a police report states.
 Why did they call the cops and not the parents is a good question. In one version of the story that I read, the parents were unavailable for contact. If you contact everyone on the list in most schools, the next step in most cases in the police.  So far I think the police or the school did not wrong what so ever, though the cuffs might have been overkill, I understand that it was for her safety in the police car.

But here is the kicker:

The girl's aunt, Candace Ruff, went with the child's mother to pick her up from the police station. She said Salecia had been in a holding cell and complained about the handcuffs.
"She said they were really tight. She said they really hurt her wrists," Ruff said. "She was so shaken up when we went there to pick her up."

And:
"We would not like to see this happen to another child, because it's horrifying. It's devastating," her aunt told The Associated Press.

So let me translate what she said in what it means to me.  It was totally OK for her niece  to terrorize the school, give her classmates nightmares about her actions, and be totally impossible to work with. What is not OK is for her niece is to have handcuffs put on her because they hurt her wrist and she was so shaken up about it, to the point of being devastated.

Am I missing something here.  She got her 15 minutes of fame I guess. I do not think I would have been calling the police if my child had been acting like that...

Tuesday, April 03, 2012

From the "Whoops, I spoke to soon department"

Read this today and got a chuckle....


Only good driver 'on the planet' ruins car
NEW YORK, April 3 (UPI) -- A car that hit a guardrail on a New York road was photographed with a bumper sticker proclaiming the motorist is the only good driver "on the planet."
The car, which was smashed on its front end and flipped over after colliding with the guardrail in a northbound lane of the FDR Drive at 9 a.m. Sunday, was photographed bearing a bumper sticker reading, "Why am I the only one on the planet who knows how to drive?" the New York Post reported Monday.
Police said the male driver, who was alone in the car, was taken to Weill Cornell Medical Center with non-life-threatening injuries.


Read more: http://www.upi.com/Odd_News/2012/04/03/Jockstrip-The-world-as-we-know-it/UPI-48681333447200/#ixzz1r08dNNR6

Monday, April 02, 2012

Obama Warns 'unelected' Supreme Court Against Striking Down Health Law | Fox News

Obama Warns 'unelected' Supreme Court Against Striking Down Health Law | Fox News

President Obama, employing his strongest language to date on the Supreme Court review of the federal health care overhaul, cautioned the court Monday against overturning the law -- while repeatedly saying he's "confident" it will be upheld. 
The president spoke at length about the case at a joint press conference with the leaders of Mexico and Canada. The president, adopting what he described as the language of conservatives who fret about judicial activism, questioned how an "unelected group of people" could overturn a law approved by


Read more: http://www.foxnews.com/politics/2012/04/02/obama-confident-supreme-court-will-uphold-health-care-law/#ixzz1qv0zymJd

So I want to make sure that I get this straight. When the conservatives complained that the unelected court was making rules from the bench that  flew against what the people wanted, that was OK because it fit the liberal agenda, that was OK.  When the unelected court makes rules that support the conservative agenda and go against the liberal agenda, then a stern warning comes from the president and elected officials happen.

Am I the only one who does not see the logic in this.  If it is wrong one want, is it not wrong the other way as well?

Or have I drank too much of the conservative Kool-aide....?

Thursday, January 19, 2012

Working with my kid...

Last night and tonight have been interesting. You have to understand that up till a few years ago I was always very active in working with my children. Even though I worked nights, most of that time I worked from home.
That changed a few years ago. My job was airline related, I did technical assistance for technicians fixing airline ticketing equipment. When 9/11 happened my office go downsized a few people at a time . I was lucky and held on longer than others, but in the end I was let go.
I took a job at a community college fixing computers but I worked nights. Eventuality I went to days but along with my part time job of teaching them, I had to take on a job at a major retail store. So I was basically home maybe one a week.
This not good because my youngest son has Asburgers, a high functioning form of Autism. He has really needed a dad and I have not been emotionally or physically there. We were loosening connection.
In school he was needing to write a narrative essay, but he was drawing a blank on how to do it. It was passed the due date but they would take it if we could get it done soon. Now I am not the best writer but I have learned how to write bettthan many so even though I was tired, as he was to, I got to help him write his paper.
The result I do not care if he gets a good grade on. We had connected again in ways we haven't done in years. I think he enjoyed it as well. He was relaxed as he climbed into bed as if he once again knew he had a dad who loved him.
In my Wednesday night co-dependency group, I am a facilitator of a group going over the book, The Father Heart of God. I have learned in the past two days just what a joy it is for me to be part of my sons life again. How much more does it mean to the Father God to be part of my life if I will just let Him be a part of it?